Contact by Phone 1-213-283-8099
# A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Go Back   Health Food, Vitamin and Supplement Forum > Health and Wellness > Sexual Health

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old May 22nd, 2010, 03:24 PM
Anna Marie Gonzalez Anna Marie Gonzalez is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 29
Default When should I have sex?

So, I'm in a relationship, and I've been with the person for 2 months, and we've been dating for about 3 months. However, recently, my boyfriend asked me to hang out at his house when his parents are out of town for a few days. I think that all he wants to do is just hang and be close, but I'm not sure if we might go any further or not. What should I do if he attemps to make a move? Should I go wtih it, or should I wait longer?
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old May 24th, 2010, 12:29 PM
Garciella Montez Garciella Montez is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 30
Default

well it all just really depends on you. if you are ready and want to have sex with him then i say go for it..but then if your not to sure about it then i would wait simply because you want to be sure its what you want specially if your going to be giving up your v card. just try to think about it and dont hesitate to say no if you do not want to sleep wiht him.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old May 25th, 2010, 02:51 PM
Cerella Santa Cerella Santa is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 27
Default

yeah. you just gotta make sure that you're ready to do the deed with him, no matter what he says. make sure that if you are not ready, just tell him in advance, and be adamant if you're still unsure.

that doesn't mean you can't have a nice time at his house, but you should know what you want to do .
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old May 29th, 2010, 04:20 PM
Paula Ramos Paula Ramos is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 23
Default

i agree with this. You just gotta know where you stand, see what you need to do, and know how far you can go. afterwards, just roll with whatever he offers to do, though know when to say no.

relax, and have fun~!
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old June 2nd, 2010, 06:01 PM
Gloria Hays Gloria Hays is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 30
Default

yeah well its all a comfort level .. if you feel like you can trust this guy and hes your boyfreind then do it ...wait will he be ypur first? hmm well dont let anyone pressure and somronr tell me you forget about it
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old June 3rd, 2010, 02:54 PM
Zeta Ventua Zeta Ventua is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 12
Default

If it's your first time, then yeah........2-3 months might be jumping the gun. I would recommend you'd wait at least 6 months ebfore you even consider the possibility of any sexual contact, at least that's how I feel.

Even so, even if you had sex, 2-3 months, that's a bit too fast for my taste, at least for me.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old June 3rd, 2010, 07:01 PM
Myshell Walter Myshell Walter is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 14
Default

have sex when you feel and know that you are ready to have sex. the biggest mistake someone can make is having sex bacuse they feel obligated too. don't fall for pressure and do it when you know you are ready.
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old June 18th, 2010, 02:45 PM
Gianna Hudson Gianna Hudson is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 28
Default

I definately agree. While having sex can be a really wonderful thing, I think if it's your first time, you would want it to be at least with someone you like. It would suck if you lost your virginity to someone that didn't appreciate you, or in a situation where you were impaired or in a bit of a sleazy spot, haha. At least that's what I think.
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old June 23rd, 2010, 02:22 PM
Zuri Lee Zuri Lee is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 25
Default

honestly.. he needs you as much as you need him to make this sexual exoperince happen so i would say. if you do go to your house and he does try to make a move think about it before going over there.. and think do i really want to do thi?? if your answer is yes then do it.. just make sure its what you want and dont feel pressued to do so.. its all in your hands.. and dont make it something you regret
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old June 24th, 2010, 02:26 PM
Raine Fields Raine Fields is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 30
Default

2-3 months is definately way too soon for the sex itself, in my opinion. I would say that the most you could go at that point would have to be at least 2nd base at the MOST. However, your boyfriend should wait or stop if he tries anything. At least, that's what I think.
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 12:18 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.5
Copyright ©2000 - 2016, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.

QUICK HELP LINKS COMPANY INFORMATION
- Order Form
- Return Policy
- Volume Discount
- Order Tracking
- International Customer
- General Policy
- Backordered Items
- Contact Us
- About Bayho, Inc
- How to Order
- Our Office
- Health Reward Points
- Privacy Policy